Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Cost of Parenting increases

It looks like I am in the minority this year! I can only think of a couple friends who are pregnant or just had a baby. It seemed like EVERYONE was with child when I had my now 2-year-old. I have no idea how much we spend on the boys each year, but it isn't cheap. At least they can share clothes and hopefully some sporting equipment. However, I have a feeling I will be buying food in huge bulk supplies in the coming years! I do not want the boys living with us after they turn 18 years old. Hopefully we won't be in another recession at that time!


LOS ANGELES - This year, 4.3 million babies will be born in the United States, representing a 0.4 percent decline from 2008. While recessions typically lead to fewer birth rates, the latest research from Los Angeles-based IBISWorld shows that not only does parenting get pricier with time, but the impact of current economic conditions will further exacerbate the financial commitment.

"We can expect to see a surge in the boomerang generation [ages 18-24] returning home and continuing financial dependency on parents due to a scarce and competitive job market," said Toon van Beeck, senior analyst at IBISWorld. "This phenomenon has become more apparent in recent years, with higher costs in tuition and rent making transitioning into adulthood increasingly difficult. Thanks to the recession, many parents will get prolonged time with their kids until their debt is paid off or market conditions improve."

From the moment of conception to age 18, the average cost of raising a child is about $227,862-which translates to an average cost of $12,658 a year:

Relative to average cost, however, is income level. A household yielding an annual income of less than $45,000 will spend roughly $156,469 on their child until they turn 18. Incomes between $45,000 and $75,000 spend $214,829, while households earning $75,000 and above splurge over $312,286 by the time their teen graduate's high school. Afterwards, parents can expect to shell out for college tuition, along with additional financial burdens induced by a stagnant economy.

Also relative to the total average cost spent on a child is location. For instance, those who reside in the west pay the most per child in the nation - 8.1 percent above average - due to higher income levels and cost of living. In eastern regions, such as New England, a child is 4.9 percent more expensive, whereas raising a child in the south meets closest with average figures.
Major financial considerations, such as private school, have not been factored into the average, but count as significant expenses that get even pricier for those living in urban areas. Total expenses used to calculate IBISWorld's estimate on the average total cost of raising a child include:

With housing encompassing the greatest portion (35 percent) of total expenses, expect to see adverse effects brought on by foreclosures and rising unemployment - especially in hard hit states like California and Arizona.

"We have already noticed an influx of middle-income families, particularly from California, relocating out of state in search of more affordable housing and employment opportunities," said van Beeck. "The ability for parents to afford a better quality of life for their child is of utmost importance, and it entails sacrifices."

-NewsAnchorMom Jen

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Newer Autism Treatment

A small wellness clinic in franklin, tennessee is treating autistic children by using colon therapies. One parent says it has changed the life of her autistic son.

Mitchell Allison's been living with autism since he was almost three years old.

Mitchell's mom Julie runs an autism center in Murfreesboro. She watched Mitchell's onset of autism. And she noticed as his autism progressed... He had trouble lots of stomach
troubles... including problems using the bathroom.

Julie Allison: Mother of Autistic Child
"I had a pediatrician who specializes in autism tell me there was nothing wrong with him, and this was when he was younger, he hasn't had a bowel movement in 12 days."

Vanderbilt University Medical Center recently finished a study which shows the same gene may be responsible for both autism and gastrointestinal disorders.

Janice Doochin: In Harmony Wellness Center
"I see so many kids who have the same problems..."

And for almost 10 years Mitchell's parents took him to dozens of doctors for help... until they found in Harmony. And enrolled him in a series of colon therapy sessions with Janice Doochin.

Doochin:
"Working with him in the room, on the megan bed doing massage a lot of touch."
So now playing games even like tic tac toe are easier for Mitchell because he's more alert after going through the therapies here.

Allison:
"He can sleep now!"

Doochin is an RN who specializes in holistic therapy... She works with a handful of other autistic children like Mitchell.

Doochin:
"Patterns have changed, some independence."

And that for Julie is the best gift of all.

Allison: "it gave him his independence back."

Has anyone else heard of this connection?

-NewsAnchorMom Jen

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Monday, June 29, 2009

Natural Child Birth

Some of you might think I am crazy, but I think this is a great idea. I had a natural birth with my first and a walking epidural with the second. I don't think I felt that much pain until I was about 5 centimeters. I went from 5 to 10 in a matter of minutes with both kids. So, I am going to check with insurance and see how the epidural is covered. If it's 80/20 I may opt out again. We'll see when the time comes. I am paying so much money to see a specialist every week right now. The total bill will be around $5,000 if everything goes well from this point. If this birthing option mentioned below was available here, I would try it. Do you think I am crazy? Has anyone else had a natural child birth?


FROM NBC: C-section rates are skyrocketing - and so are the costs for delivering a baby. Now one south Florida hospital is hoping a spa atmosphere might coax women into taking a more natural approach. Diana Gonzalez has the story. The lights are dimmed in this special labor and delivery room ... There is soothing music and pictures ... Flameless candles next to signs with encouraging messages.

The new natural birthing suite at Memorial Hospital Miramar was conceived by two nurses.
Registered Nurse Luisa Shulruff said, “ We can give them all the support that they need so that if they have the courage and if they have the will to try to have birth unmedicated that we are here for them." Sandra Droira said, “In this fast-paced world that we have today where everything has to be timed and programed, I think we are losing that allowing nature to take its course." While a growing number of expectant moms are scheduling c-sections, labor inductions, and epidurals... Eliza Pearo has signed up to give birth here without any medications.

Eliza Pearo:Expectant Mom
"Nope. I understand that it's going to be painful but I think it's natural and I'm ready to deal with it." Dr. Eric Freeling, Medical Affairs Director: "It offers the patient the ability to deliver in a natural, calm ambiance ... but also have the backup of the hospital and all of the equipment and the technology and the expertise that the hospital has to intervene if there's an emergency situation."

Operating rooms are just down the hall. So is a level two Neonatal Intensive Care Unit. But Eliza is hoping none of this will be necessary when she gives birth to Naya. Eliza Pearo: Expectant Mom "I believe in my body and I believe having a child is a natural process and when possible you shouldn't interfere with nature."

-NewsAnchorMom Jen

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Sunday, June 28, 2009

Swimmer's Ear

With temperatures soaring and heat indices topping out in the triple digits, many are flocking to swimming pools and local waterways, but this could expose you to an unwanted infection. It's that time of year again when pediatricians see a spike in the number of ear infections.

Dr. Albert Richert, Jr., Pediatrician: "Injury to the ear canal...swimming and putting things in your ear can scratch the outer ear canal here and cause some injury and swelling and infection."
Unlike an infection of the middle ear, doctor Albert Richert says swimmer's ear happens when bacteria grow in the ear canal. In that canal, there's delicate skin that is protected by a thin coating of earwax. Dr. Albert Richert, Jr., Pediatrician: "The ear wax forms a barrier that can protect the skin. It helps keep the acidity at the right level in the ear, which helps prevent bacterial growth." Many people clean their ears each day with a cotton swab, but this is actually frowned upon because you're getting rid of the "good" earwax.

Dr. Richert: "The old adage is to never place anything in your ear that's smaller than your elbow, which basically means – don't put anything in your ear." So if you or your child will be beating the heat in the water this summer, you need to take some extra steps to ensure that your ears stay healthy. Dr. Richert:"One of the best ways is actually to use a hairdryer. to blow–dry your ear, you hold the hair–dryer about 12 inches from your ear and blow warm air into your ear and that dries your ear out."

And like many professional swimmers, Dr. Richert says shaking your ears when you get out of the water also helps to keep them dry. Swimmer's ear drops can also aid in prevention, but if you are already feeling pain... it's too late!
"You can use swim ear drops to prevent the pain, but once the pain comes on, stop using those and you need to go see your doctor." Antibiotic eardrops are prescribed to treat swimmer's ear. Swimming caps can help with keeping water from entering the ear, but ear plugs are *not recommended unless they are specially fit to the person.


Luckily, we haven't dealt with this one yet. My oldest just recently decided he liked swimming under water. We are heading to the pool a lot more often these days. Now, it's just my husband and the boys since I am on bed rest. Has anyone ever dealt with swimmer's ear?

-NewsAnchorMom Jen

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7 Months

Oh the joy of being 7 months pregnant with a 110 degree heat index! I hear this week will be cooler. On Friday I had another cervical check to see if all the contractions I am having (15-20 per day) are getting my body ready for labor way too early. My OB told me to pack a bag for the hospital before the appointment because there was a good chance I would be sent to the hospital. Yikes! So Friday was a little scary. However, everything looked good and I got to go back home. Yeah! I go back on Wednesday and will go every week until the baby is born. I will be really broke, but hopefully baby Christensen will wait another 10 weeks! Friends at work put a love seat in front of my computer at work so I could remain on pseudo-bed rest while I am there! I have to take a picture. It is funny!

-NewsAnchorMom Jen

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Friday, June 26, 2009

Teen Death While Texting?


YOURHEARTOFILLINOIS.COM: Investigators tonight are trying to determine whether texting while driving lead to a crash that killed a Eureka teen yesterday. The community is in mourning after the death of 17–year–old Alyssa Burns.

Her car crashed on Eureka's 800 North County Highway about one Thursday afternoon.. AND Investigators say cell phone records show the victim may have been texting right before the accident.
Crashes like this one motivated lawmakers to propose new laws to make texting while driving illegal.

Regardless of the crash's cause...loved ones and friends are trying keep Alyssa Burns' memory alive. The soon–to–be Eureka High senior died late yesterday afternoon...after losing control of her car on a two–lane highway and crashing into a cornfield.

Friends say she was an outgoing girl who loved to dance, and it's hard to believe she's really gone. It's definitely someone that's so famous in the school. Everyone likes her, and she's always bringing a smile to everyone's face. "It's just a heartbreaking moment."
Last night dozens of people gathered for a vigil at Eureka High School, and again today for a memorial balloon launch... Something friends of Burns say was as close to a proper sendoff as they could give.

"Purple was her favorite color, and then you wrote on the balloon what you wanted to say to her because nobody really got a chance to say goodbye."
Family members of Alyssa's did not want to go on camera, but did say no funeral arrangements have been made.

I am so sorry for this family. I can't imagine raising a child only to have them die as a teenager. It is just horrible. Whether texting had anything to do with her death or not, I hope stories like this one make other people think twice about texting and driving.

-NewsAnchorMom Jen

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Thursday, June 25, 2009

Kids Getting Plastic Surgery

I felt so "out of the know" when I read this article. I heard about more teenagers getting breast implants, but I didn't realize they could get liposuction. That is surprising to me, especially at 16. I would have thought they would need to finish growing before they could have any work done on their body. I guess not. What do you think about this? Would you let your child have any of these surgeries? At what age?

FROM NBC: A growing trend in America.. teens getting plastic surgery. But are teens old enough and mature enough to be changing their looks?


We see it in magazines and on TV. Plastic surgery is a 30 billion dollar industry...and the patients... are getting younger and younger.

Dr. Gerald Pitman/New York City Plastic Surgeon
"For teenagers the range of ages I've operated on have been 14 to 19. I have had patients as young as 12 come into the office and ask for surgery."

According to the American Society of Plastic Surgeons, there was a 180% increase in cosmetic surgery procedures performed on teenagers from 2003 to 2008. Dr. Pitman said, "The common operation for children are a nose reduction...ears being pinned back, dermabration for acne, breast reduction in girls and in boys and liposuction."

When 21 year old Kate Deleveileuse was a teen, she hated her legs."I probably started becoming self conscious about my legs in about 8th grade. I couldn't wear boots, I didn't really like to wear shorts or skirts or anything that ended at the knee." So for her 16th birthday her mom got her the present she wanted -- liposuction.

Rudy Ferno/Kate's Mother
"I think it's important for your child to feel like they fit in."

Dr. Pitman "Never underestimate the importance of anyone's appearance to their self esteem, adult or child. it is frequently more important to the child than to the adult. They are much more sensitive to the emotional slights and insults of their peers."

But it's just that emotional immaturity that has some questioning whether teenagers are old enough to make decisions about going under the knife and changing their bodies forever.

Kate "just actual dangers of surgery i didn't take into account to be honest."

Dr. David Staffenberg, a reconstructive surgeon at Children's Hospital at Montefiore, focuses on surgeries for children with deformities like a cleft palate or disfiguring birthmarks. He says he doesn't do "strictly" cosmetic plastic surgery for anyone under 18.

Staffenberg "In our world, cosmetic surgery is concentrating on features that are acceptable and trying to make them better, whereas reconstructive surgery concentrates on features that are say unacceptable or congenital deformities."

But, even Dr. Staffenberg admits that there's a gray line. Dr. Staffenberg
"Each patient is different and we can't set rules for one patient and then necessarily carry them over to another, so it frequently comes down to the consolation between the patient and their parents and the plastic surgeon in trying to sort this out."

Five years later Kate has no regrets. Kate "I feel great about doing it. I just think it's your body you should be able to improve it in any way you want as long as you're doing it for the right
reasons." But plastic surgery is a place where parenting and medicine need to overlap.

Dr. Staffenberg "Every year there are millions of plastic surgery operations done safely, but
that does not mean it comes without risks."

-NewsAnchorMom Jen

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